Just The Way You Are.
“One day I had to sit down with myself and decide that I loved myself no matter what I looked like” – Gabourey Sidibe
You're probably thinking that it's easier said than done, and I agree. Everyone feels insecure. No one is born with either strong or weak self-confidence. It’s a part of our lives, people work and grow their sense of confidence through time. The majority of people experience fluctuations in their confidence. We feel self-doubt, we feel anger that stems from a feeling of insecurity, we feel fear and groundlessness and frustration. All of this comes from the insecurity of the uncertainty of life. And none of it is a problem. It’s not a problem that we feel insecure sometimes. It’s not a problem to feel fear or self-doubt or anger or frustration. These are just feelings, and they come up in response to the uncertainty of the world.
EMBRACE YOUR SIZE
I frequently come across gorgeous people rocking the most incredible body-cons, skinny jeans, or even just a plain outfit, whether they are on Instagram or are simply out and about in opulent locations like the streets of Orchard road. As women, we definitely stare, and exclaim, "I have to buy them!" and then browsed online to find the exact fit. Devastation then sets in as you go through page after page of models wearing the customary Extra Small (XS). We've been taught that the weights on a scale are a good indicator of how valuable we are. The truth is that there is no optimum weight or body type because of the exquisite complexity of our bodies. Understanding that our body acceptance and self-worth are actually unquantifiable can help us embrace bodies of all shapes and sizes and appreciate them for everything they do for us.
WEAR YOUR CONFIDENCE
At Neonmello, we believe everyone should have the opportunity to be confident in all aspects of their lives and that no one should be left behind. We believe that you should believe in yourself as much as we do believe in you. We hope you can wear your confidence the same way you wear our clothing. Have faith in your exceptional and wonderful qualities, and let people see them in you. Wearing confidently is the one thing you can always do to make yourself feel beautiful.
You will hear in this campaign how our various sized models overcame their doubts from them! I fully agree with Melissa when she says to surround yourself with individuals that share your interests so you can support one another. You become who you associate with. Therefore, pick your friends wisely because they have the power to greatly affect you. Take steps to surround yourself with people who will improve your life. Spend time with those who support you. Even at your worst, you should love yourself. Getting familiar with the idea of generally loving yourself is one thing; learning to love yourself wholeheartedly is an altogether different book. Recognizing you're having a difficult day and experiencing self-doubts, while still accepting them and knowing they don't diminish your value in any way, is what it means to love yourself wholeheartedly. Everybody has bad days. People experience sadness. You are a human. It is okay because it is part of nature. We ought to accept who we are because each of us was born in a special way. We are all gorgeous in our own ways, regardless of our sizes. Wear whatever makes you feel good. Wear your confidence.
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